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50 Greatest Romantic Comedies of All Time

From ’30s screwballs to 21st-century meet-cutes, Rock and Doris to Hanks and Ryan — our picks for the best rom-coms ever

Say Anything, Moonstruck, When Harry Met Sally

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Take two people. Find a way to pair them up — maybe they’re on a cross-country trip together, maybe they both work in the same office, maybe they’re rivals in the same industry. Better yet, they might even be two parts of a love triangle. The scenarios are endless. Now throw some obstacles in their way, from geography to class issues to vengeful exs and/or brand new beaus. Or the conflict could be as easy as the fact that they just don’t like each other — in fact, they despise the other person. Then, after a lot of comic shenanigans and trying circumstances, they realize that they’re really meant for each other. Cupid’s arrows hit their marks. Roll credits.

It sounds simple, right? But to make a great romantic comedy — like, a really classic, stand-the-test-of-time one — requires skill, chops, expert timing, the right chemistry among your leads and the ability to pull heartstrings and hit funny bones at the same time. It’s a tougher balancing act than most folks would care to admit, and all the more impressive when filmmakers and actors actually do pull it off.

And the romantic comedies we’ve singled out here aren’t just impressive — they are, in our humble opinions, the cream of the genre crop, the best of the best. In honor of Valentine’s Day, a.k.a. the holiday where everyone craves both rom-com viewing time and argument-starting ranked lists, we present our choices for the 50 best rom-coms of all time. From ’30s screwballs to 21st century meet-cutes, Rock and Doris to Tom and Meg, these are the ones that had us at “hello.”

26

‘Notting Hill’ (1999)

Pairing Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant may seem like the union of rom-com royalty, complete with a script by Richard Curtis (Four Weddings and a Funeral) — but this is the sort of movie that revels in bringing its stars down to earth. In order to get to a place where Roberts is “just a girl, standing in front of a boy, asking him to love her,” Notting Hill plays off her A-list, America’s-Sweetheart image beautifully, as a conflict between the glamour and guardedness of being among the Hollywood elite and a longing for the simpler pleasures of being human. Grant bats his eyelids as charmingly as ever here; his sincerity and gentle wit make for a perfect grounding force. ST

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25

‘To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before’ (2018)

From straight-to-Netflix release to one of the most swoonworthy movies of 2018 — give it up for this rom-com based on Jenny Han’s young adult novel, in which shy teen Lara Jean Covey (Lana Condor) fake-dates 11th grade heartthrob Peter Kavinsky (Noah Centineo) for the kind of complicated reasons endemic to any great high school farce. Not only does To All the Boys set a precedent for teen romantic comedies with non-white leads (Lara Jean and her family are half-Korean), but it also finds the template for a new era of male romantic lead: a guy who, rather than being a charming alpha asshole who must be reformed, is just a supernice, chill dude right from the get-go. JS

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24

‘Harold and Maude’ (1971)

Sure, it can be hard to have a relationship when there’s a 50-plus age gap between the two participants — and you might say that one party’s endless suicide attempts would be an obstacle to a happily-ever-after ending as well. But if Hal Ashby’s cult classic proves nothing else, it’s that anything is possible when you find your soul mate. Bud Cort is Harold, a death-obsessed rich kid. Ruth Gordon is Maude, a septuagenarian woman who doubles as a human sunflower. They meet at a funeral — of course they do! — and form one of the screen’s greatest anti-conformist couples ever. It’s the romantic comedy for those that prefer their quirk with an extra side of offbeat, a life-affirming story that reminds you that every pot has a lid (even the warped ones) and a joyous celebration of the power of connection. If you want to be free, be free. DF

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23

‘Four Weddings and a Funeral’ (1994)

Could the modern romantic comedy even exist without Hugh Grant? In Four Weddings and a Funeral, he redefined the “charming British suitor” type, replacing the old-fashioned suave sophistication with a fumbling humanity. And with their star’s help, screenwriter Richard Curtis and director Mike Newell delivered a surprise box-office smash, with a story about a group of well-to-do, thirtysomething Englishfolk reluctantly confronting the seriousness of real life. As Grant’s stammering nice guy weighs his many romantic options — Should he end up with Andie MacDowell and Kristin Scott Thomas? And was there really any doubt whom he would pick before the final credits? — his quest for love doubles as the story of an overgrown schoolboy growing up. NM

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22

‘Sleepless in Seattle’ (1993)

It’s the rare rom-com that has the audacity to keep its two would-be lovers apart until the closing moments of the movie, but leave it to her royal highness Nora Ephron to make the gimmick work — and work brilliantly. The setup is pure Nineties missed connection: On Christmas Eve, newspaper reporter Annie (Meg Ryan) finds herself drawn to a widower (Tom Hanks) who she hears on a call-in radio show. She slowly becomes obsessed with tracking him down and arranging an Affair to Remember-inspired meeting — despite the fact that he lives clear on the other side of the country and doesn’t even know she exists. As Sleepless in Seattle plays out, the viewer becomes as invested in the idea of these two folks finding each other as Annie is. The fact that we’re essentially watching the story of a stalker pursuing her prey and rooting for her the whole way is a testament to both Ephron’s writing and to Ryan’s unassailable charm. JS

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21

‘Pretty in Pink’ (1986)

John Hughes made teen comedies that had romantic elements in them (it was possible to forget at times that Sixteen Candles revolved around Sam pining for Jake Ryan amidst all the nerd shenanigans and that cringeworthy Long Duk Dong thing). But this Hughes-penned movie — with Howard Deutch in the director’s chair — found just the right balance of funny, funky, heart-meltingly swoony and sweet. Wrong-side-of-the-tracks student Andie Walsh (Molly Ringwald, iconic) could never attract the attention of a rich prep like Blaine McDonaugh (Andrew McCarthy). What would their equally snobbish friends think? The ending is still enough to choke you up. And whenever things threaten to get too heavy, along comes Ducky in all his thrift-store-outfit, Otis-Redding-singing glory to crack you up. God bless you, Jon Cryer. DF

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20

‘Bringing Up Baby’ (1938)

Howard Hawks’ genuinely uproarious, innuendo-filled romp was a bomb upon release — a piece of trivia that only adds to the merits of this screwball masterpiece. Cary Grant’s bumbling Dr. David Huxley just wants one last bone [ahem] to build his brontosaurus. Instead, he’s pushed to the brink of sanity at breakneck speed by Katharine Hepburn’s irrepressible, scatterbrained heiress Susan Vance, who hopes to save him from a marriage that promises to be dustier than a dinosaur fossil. A simmering frustration leads, naturally, to love — but not before they spend half their time together chasing animals, from an impish terrier to a leopard named Baby (the film long predated our current mania for furry thespians). PR

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19

‘Working Girl’ (1988)

Melanie Griffith has never been better than in Mike Nichols’ “fake it ’til you make it” tale as spunky Staten Island secretary Tess McGill, who makes her big career move when her snooty boss, Katharine (Sigourney Weaver) steals her big idea and then breaks a leg skiing. It’s a slice of Eighties Wall Street excess that captures the culture in exacting detail, from the secretaries commuting in sneakers to the debauched workplace behavior. It’s also a genuinely sexy movie that only gets sexier as Tess puts on an air of cool confidence to go after the career she deserves and the man she wants — Harrison Ford in his prime as big-shot mergers-and-acquisitions honcho Jack. KW

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18

‘Roman Holiday’ (1953)

Being a princess is hard work, as Audrey Hepburn’s visiting royal ambassador will tell you. What she would not give to see the sights of Rome on her own like an anonymous civilian! So her highness plays hooky from her duties and pretends to be your average tourist. Enter reporter Gregory Peck, who takes kindness on this lost stranger … until he realizes who she is and smells a helluva scoop. You can keep your Breakfast at Tiffany’s — for us, this is the ultimate Hepburn movie, full of grace, wit and some truly glorious footage of two movie stars tooling around the Italian city on a moped. Ask any visitor who’s ever stuck their hand inside the Bocca della Verità — the film is genuinely iconic. DF

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17

‘There’s Something About Mary’ (1998)

Just what nobody expected in the summer of 1998: a romance from the Farrelly Brothers, in the wake of Dumb and Dumber. There’s Something About Mary was a wildly offensive feast of gross-out gags, with Cameron Diaz famously using some of Ben Stiller’s bodily fluids as hair gel. But hidden in all the sleaze was a surprisingly deft parable about trust and security, with sharp flirtatious banter. (Ben: “I think I’ll quit while I’m ahead.” Cameron: “You’re not that far ahead.”) Punk-rock cult hero Jonathan Richman plays the narrator, showing up with his guitar whenever somebody needs a song. There’s also Matt Dillon, Chris Elliott, Sarah Silverman, “Build Me Up Buttercup” and a pre-dick-pic Brett Favre. RS

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16

‘Something Wild’ (1986)

The pairing of a square guy and a free-spirited girl — it’s always a rom-com home run, right? Few movies have taken that notion to weirder, wilder places than this Jonathan Demme effort, in which Jeff Daniels’ uptight banker meets Melanie Griffith’s exotic rebel after attempting a dine-and-dash. She not only recognizes a guy who’s ready to unwind a little; this dream bohemian also ropes him into playing the role of a respectable type at her high-school reunion. Then their road trip gets considerably crazier when her psychotic ex-boyfriend (Ray Liotta) comes into the picture. There’s a naughty energy that keeps things going even when the film takes a darker turn — credit the cracked chemistry between Daniels and Griffith. We wish Demme had made more movies with them as a duo. ST

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15

‘The Lady Eve’ (1941)

No old-school Hollywood couple can match the acid-to-alkaline chemistry of Barbara Stanwyck and Henry Fonda. She’s a con artist aboard a cruise ship who sets her sights on big game: Fonda, a mild-mannered reptile scholar and heir to the Pike Ale fortune. (“The ale that won for Yale!”) The gold diggers are after him — as Stanwyck sneers, “Every Jane in the room is giving him the thermometer” — but no woman can turn his head from his books and his pet snake… until Stanwyck steps in to destroy his life. Preston Sturges crams this classic with nonstop barbs (“Why Hopsie — you oughta be kept in a cage!”) in a screenplay where every line is endlessly quotable, right down to the final four words. Positively the same dame! RS

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14

‘The Princess Bride’ (1987)

If you grew up in the Eighties, few phrases in the English language are a faster shorthand for heart-fluttering romance than “As you wish.” Rom-com sensei Rob Reiner created a masterpiece that has something for everybody: high fantasy, wry comedy, kick-ass swordfights, canny political commentary and, of course, sigh-inducing true love. (Or rather, twue wuv.) As we follow reluctant damsel Buttercup (Robin Wright) and farmboy-turned-pirate Westley (Cary Elwes) up the Cliffs of Insanity, through the Fire Swamp and to the very edge of death, we’re simultaneously rooting for our lovers to win the day and chuckling at the knowingly trope-tweaking silliness of it all. Plus unlike the ailing grandson (Fred Savage) in the framing story, we are most definitely not grossed out by the kissing parts. JS

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13

‘Pillow Talk’ (1959)

Rock Hudson and Doris Day started their winning onscreen collaboration here, adeptly playing into their public personas: He’s Brad, a smug womanizer who shares a party line with Jan, a fussy, prudish career gal who doesn’t have time for love. Thanks to some wonderfully convoluted circumstances, however, a spark develops between them — although he has to disguise his voice so she doesn’t realize he’s the jerk on her phone. It’s not just the concept of a party line that makes Pillow Talk old-fashioned — its gender politics are rigidly mid-century, white-picket-fence conservative. But that cultural parochialism only gives the film’s subversive sexiness and combustible chemistry extra naughty delight. Underneath all that squeaky-clean innocence, there’s a whole lot of thirstiness. TG

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12

‘It Happened One Night’ (1934)

And down come the walls of Jericho! Arguably the Rosetta stone of rom-coms, Frank Capra’s Oscar-winning behemoth pairs one hoity-toity heiress (Claudette Colbert) and one desperate investigative journalist (Clark Gable, singlehandedly killing the undershirt business) on one long, crazy road trip. The fact that this farce skirted in right under the wire before the Hays Code started getting rigid on risque material lends an extra layer of erotic friction to the laughs — not to mention the fact that the two leads were at their sexiest and their funniest in 1934. (All apologies, The Palm Beach Story.) Everyone remembers the hitchhiking scene, but personally, we stan for the sequence in which Gable carries Colbert across a river over his shoulder. (“Now you take Abraham Lincoln … a natural-born piggy-backer!”) Still hilarious, still hot. DF

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11

‘Annie Hall’ (1977)

Woody Allen is so central to his films’ appeal — which is why the dark cloud hovering over the writer-director-star makes it difficult now to fully access what is so poignant, hilarious, hip and thoughtful about this unlikely Best Picture-winner that radically modernized the romantic comedy. This story of a neurotic comic (Allen) and an aspiring singer (Diane Keaton) isn’t just about how people fall in love — it’s about how they fall out of love, drift apart, realize that their once-hot passion will eventually dissolve into an enduring, distant fondness (if they’re lucky). Annie Hall endures as one of the most honest portraits of attraction’s ebb and flow, embodied in Keaton’s unimpeachable performance as a budding artist who eventually learns she doesn’t need an insecure man’s approval to love herself. TG

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10

‘Groundhog Day’ (1993)

The existential quest for self-betterment has never been more hilariously, nor more movingly, teased out than in this Harold Ramis classic, which could be subtitled Phil Connors in the Bardo. As Bill Murray’s grouchy weatherman is forced to endlessly relive the same frigid February day in the limbo known as Punxsutawney, PA, he moves from irritation to nihilism to depression to, finally, the earnest pursuit of true love. Amid our man’s meanderings on that infinite winter’s day, the true pleasure of Groundhog Day is watching him fall for — and then work to make himself worthy of — his producer Rita (Andie MacDowell). What’s more romantic than a guy learning to carve ice sculptures for you? JS

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9

‘Bull Durham’ (1988)

The thing about baseball is, when you’re evaluating a fastball pitcher … wait, come back! Bull Durham was a breakthrough in the Eighties — a sports movie that doubled as a date flick. Susan Sarandon stars as an intellectual North Carolina baseball fan with a thing for handsome minor-league prospects. She spends the movie juggling a couple of conspicuously younger suitors: catcher Kevin Costner and pitcher Tim Robbins. It finally made a star out of Sarandon, who’d been kicking around Hollywood for a couple of decades without getting her chance to shine as a wise-cracking feminist leading woman. And Costner got a career-making speech in praise of “long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days.” RS

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8

‘The Apartment’ (1960)

As C.C. Baxter, the most put-upon of all his put-upon characters, Jack Lemmon plays a white-collar drone so ineffectual that he loans out his apartment for his boss’s extramarital dalliances, pining for some up-the-corporate-ladder payout down the line. Which is why he shares a kinship with Shirley MacLaine’s elevator operator, who’s also getting strung along by a two-timing executive. But it’s the contrast between his mania and her melancholy that holds Billy Wilder’s brilliant, winsome office comedy in balance — as if they’re tugging each other in the right direction. Just watch how Lemmon clowns around in a “junior executive” bowler hat and takes MacLaine’s holiday blues away. Out of miserable circumstances, the two lonelyhearts bond in their humor, resilience and mutual insistence on dignity. It’s a match made in heaven, one floor at a time. ST

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7

‘Say Anything’ (1989)

One of the most tender teen comedies in the canon: Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) set the stage for high-school boys to be more than a heap of hormones. Seriously, who could have played this sweet, boom box-toting antidote to dude-bros, i.e. the knucklheads hanging out at the Gas ‘n’ Sip pontificating about the opposite sex? Described as “basic” by brainy, beautiful Diane Court (Ione Skye), our underachieving hero nonetheless wins her heart … only to get his broken. Both Skye and Cusack bring such raw, physical emotion to their performances that the story easily evolves beyond strict rom-com. It’s still funny — just yell “You. Must. CHILL!” in your best Dobler voice and try not laugh. But ultimately, it’s their young love that’s as satisfying as the ding after a plane takes flight. PR

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6

‘Moonstruck’ (1987)

Casting “crazy” Nicolas Cage as a romantic lead may seem absolutely loony. But that’s partially why Moonstruck still feels so charming: It’s a mature love story that explains why it’s sometimes right to fall for Mr. Wrong. Cher is Loretta Castorini, a cautious Italian-American widow all set to get remarried to a bland fella. Then guess who has her heart stolen by his surly one-handed sibling, played by you-know-who? And who knew these actors would fit so well together? It’s a movie that has both the ring of seen-it-all truth and the atmosphere of a fairy tale — like a Dean Martin song come to life. “Snap out of it!” NM

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5

‘Clueless’ (1995)

Writer-director Amy Heckerling didn’t set out to reinvent Jane Austen — Clueless was supposed to be about the adorable narcissism of Beverly Hills teens. Then she realized that the rest of America might not find these super-rich kiddos so cute, so she borrowed the moralistic plot of Austen’s 1815 novel Emma. And in a second stroke of genius, she cast the preternaturally cheery Alicia Silverstone as her meddling heroine, who plays matchmaker and makeover expert for her friends, yet can’t spot her own flaws — until she finds someone to love her, that is. (Hi there, Paul Rudd!) The result … well, you know what the result is. It’s a modern teen-movie classic, a Hall-of-Fame romantic comedy and the film most responsible for adding “As if!” to the lexicon. And this story’s truly timeless, even in a 1995 world filled with enormous cell phones and spontaneous appearances by the Mighty Mighty Bosstones. NM

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4

‘His Girl Friday’ (1940)

In this corner: Cary Grant, the world’s most dashing newspaper editor. In that corner: Rosalind Russell, his ace reporter, who also happens to be his ex-wife. In a few days, she’s getting married to bland ol’ Ralph Bellamy (right!) and leaving the news racket forever — but first, these two have one last big story to break. Howard Hawks adapted the play The Front Page, turning the reporter into a woman, with Russell yelling endearments like “Now get this, you double-crossing chimpanzee!” It remains one of the speediest comedies ever made — Hawks wrote overlapping dialogue to better mimic the way people talk, then asked his actors to read the lines twice as fast as usual. In the days before Robert Altman or Veep, no movie crammed in so many rapid-fire insults per minute. RS

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3

‘Broadcast News’ (1987)

Why does love got to be so sad? That question haunts James L. Brooks’ very funny, incredibly bittersweet look at the vagaries of romance and TV journalism. The writer-director crafted what he later called a film about “three people who lost their last shot at intimacy,” presenting a romantic triangle consisting of a neurotic reporter (Albert Brooks), the news producer he secretly loves (Holly Hunter) and the shallow, handsome broadcaster she should despise but instead finds charming (William Hurt). Personal and professional ethics are at the heart of Broadcast News, but this is also a wise film about the impossibility of juggling love and career. Its ending may not technically be “happy,” but it’s piercingly true. And you simply can’t beat a line like “Wouldn’t this be a great world if insecurity and desperation made us more attractive?” TG

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2

‘The Philadelphia Story’ (1940)

“Either I’m gonna sock you or you’re gonna sock me!” “Shall we toss a coin?!” The Philadelphia Story’s verbal pyrotechnics are merely part of the brilliance of this 1940 Oscar winner, in which dejected ex-husband C.K. Dexter Haven (Cary Grant) conspires with journalist Mike Connor (Jimmy Stewart) to crash the glitzy wedding of Haven’s former wife Tracy Samantha Lord (Katharine Hepburn). Fans love the biting back-and-forth dialogue among this trio of combatants — a scenario that only gets more complicated once she starts falling for both men. But beyond the witty repartee and impossibly beautiful actors, director George Cukor skillfully underlines the poignancy of people using love as a quick fix for deeper insecurities and gnawing dissatisfactions. All that, plus a pitch-perfect urbane tone, airtight plotting and the best flirty effervescence the Golden Age of Hollywood could buy. Pure rom-com bliss. TG

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1

‘When Harry Met Sally’ (1989)

The Attraction Theory. The bookstore encounter. The New Year’s Eve admission of love. The vignettes of older couples recounting their relationship stories. “You made a woman meow?!” The split screen phone call involving Carrie Fisher and Bruno Kirby’s best friends. The deli scene — dear god, that deli scene. Chances are good that when you hear the phrase “rom-com,” Rob Reiner’s movie — about two longtime acquaintances who finally realize the only people that are truly right for them is each other — was the first title you thought of. Yes, it owes a good deal to Annie Hall in its tenor and tone, but what Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan do with these roles is sui generis; it’s a one-of-a-kind alchemy. And anyone who does not think Nora Ephron was as great a screenwriter as she was an essayist simply isn’t paying attention. It is the one rom-com to rule them all, a perfect distillation of the form. We’ll always have what they’re having. DF

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